How to Properly Relax Hair at Home: Step-by-Step Guide

Medically reviewedby Dr. Bilal Khan M.B.B.S.
WrittenbyLuat Duong
Last updated

Relaxing hair at home can be a convenient and cost-effective method to tame unruly strands, providing a sleek and smooth look. However, this process requires precision and care to avoid damaging your hair. Here, we provide comprehensive guidelines on how to properly relax hair at home, ensuring safety and effectiveness.

How to Properly Relax Hair at Home?

Properly relaxing hair at home involves a series of crucial steps, including preparation, application, and maintenance of the hair relaxer:

  • Choose the right hair relaxer, taking into consideration your hair type and texture.
  • Prepare your hair by thoroughly cleaning and detangling it.
  • Apply the hair relaxer carefully, ensuring all strands are coated evenly.
  • Remove the relaxer by rinsing it off with lukewarm water.
  • Adopt a proper hair care routine post-treatment, focusing on nourishment and hydration.
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Preparation: Gather Materials and Protect Your Hair

Prior to starting the relaxing process, gather all necessary materials such as a hair relaxer, gloves, and a timer. Remember, the last thing you want is to get started, only to realize you’re missing key items. Also, protect your scalp by applying a petroleum jelly along your hairline and ears to prevent any irritation from the chemicals.

Application: Relaxer and Timing

When applying the relaxer, start at the back of your head and move towards the front, making sure to evenly coat each section of hair. It's important not to leave the relaxer on for longer than instructed, as this can lead to hair damage. Always use a timer to monitor the process.

Maintenance: Caring for Relaxed Hair

Once you have rinsed out the relaxer, apply a neutralizing shampoo to stop the relaxing process and restore your hair's pH balance. Conditioning treatments and regular moisturizing are also essential to maintain the health and shine of your relaxed hair. It's also advisable to avoid using heating tools or harsh hair products that may damage your strands.

Natural Alternatives for Relaxing Hair

If you prefer a more organic approach, there are natural alternatives to chemical relaxers, such as coconut cream, olive oil, and milk. These natural ingredients can help moisturize and nourish your hair, reducing frizz and leaving it soft and manageable.


Relaxing your hair at home can be a viable option for achieving smoother, more manageable hair. With careful preparation, application, and aftercare, you can successfully relax your hair while minimizing potential damage. Always remember, the key to healthy relaxed hair lies in following the right steps and maintaining a proper hair care routine post-relaxing.

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Luat Duong

Luat Duong is a Copenhagen-based writer and content strategist specializing in hair loss and health. His work has been featured in MyHealthGuide, The Right Hairstyles, and Woman's Era. He is a graduate of Vaasa University. You can connect with him on LinkedIn.